In our culture, “judgmental” is one of the worst things we can call another person. As
Christians, we tend to choose one extreme or the other in the exercise of
judgment. We are the judgmental hypocrites that the world thinks we are; or we act
as if we believe that Jesus preached a universal acceptance of any life-style or teaching.*
If
we take Jesus’ words to mean that Christians are called to unconditional
approval,* then we leave ourselves with no ability – or authority
– to make evaluations of whether any behavior is acceptable to God.* But
as Christians, we can’t not form an
opinion of conduct that is clearly evil.*
We
need to learn the difference between discernment and judgment. When we make assessments (judgments) about a tree based on its
fruits, we aren’t deciding the fate of the tree; we are just evaluating the
quality and quantity of its output. In John 12.47, Jesus says, “I did
not come to judge the world, but to save it.” While Jesus didn’t judge, he certainly
didn’t hesitate to use discernment. We might say that
he made “judgment calls.”
In order to avoid becoming judgmental and self-righteous,
remember these points:
- Recognizing and confronting sin in another person does not release
us from our responsibility to love them.
- “We can judge the fruit of a man, but
we can rarely judge [his] motives with accuracy.”* There is no such thing
as a good reason to commit sin but we should be sensitive to the circumstances
that have led to the wrong behavior.
In Jesus’ time,
the rabbis taught that God had two measures by which he judged people. One was
a measure of justice and the other was a measure of mercy. Which measure would
you want him to use with you?*
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